A letter to the best wedding creators in the world by Josh Withers
James Clear writes,
"Compete externally and you compare. Compete internally and you improve."
As a marriage celebrant I'm somewhat blessed that I have very few opportunities to compare, I've personally witnessed in-person less than 10 wedding ceremonies in my life, of course I mean, ceremonies I did not create.
99.999% of my competition is internal and it will no doubt be my undoing one day.
I think a good balance in all things of life is healthy so I seek out good celebrants and ceremonies online to help me grow via comparison. But perhaps you're too heavily weighted in the other direction?